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Thursday, April 28, 2016

4-28-16 Post: Jump out of the box and expand your idea of who you are.

Question/Comment: There seem to be a large number of people expressing prejudices about which human beings are superior to others. I think these are people who are unhappy with themselves and the lives they’re living but rather than take responsibility and make changes, they lash out and blame others for their misery.

Response: When we think of ourselves as separate individuals, when see others as separate from us, then it is easier to begin to make comparisons and judgements and place blame. No one wants to feel less than or at fault so we begin to find fault with others, blame them and sit in judgement of their perceived failures.

When we begin to relax our view of separateness and begin to see that we are all one human family, it becomes more natural to truly love and appreciates ourselves and extend that love and appreciation to others. 

There is less need to make anyone wrong and less need to feel defensive. With no need to compete for rightness and therefor superiority, it is easier to feel at peace with ourselves. When we do, then we find ourselves surrounded by peace and peaceful people.

We can take this thinking even further. We can realize that we are not our bodies. Every cell in the body changes over a seven year period so if we were our bodies we would be a brand new person every seven years. Really, since all the cells don’t suddenly change at once, we would be constantly in flux and never an identifiable individual.

So maybe we can consider that we are consciousness that attaches to a human body to have a human experience. When we take a further look at the human body, we see that we have the illusion that it is a single thing but it really is billions of cells that agree to band together to create a vehicle for us. 

If you can stop thinking of yourself as a solid, single package called a human being, it may change many things for you in life. Thinking of the human body as a cooperative grouping of cells is a very different perspective. (Please, see Bruce Lipton’s book The Biology of Belief 10th edition.) 

In this line of thought the body is no longer seen as one thing like a lump of stuff piled into a bag of skin. It is see as a vibrant, interacting group of intelligent, perceptive, choosing cells working together to form something together, a body. The cells cooperate and band together to form skin, organs, blood and so on which taken together forms the whole human body.

No one part can be missing without changing the whole. The behavior of every cell effects every other cell and the whole. Every part plays a vital role that every other part depends on and every part is influenced for benefit or harm by the behavior of every other cell. 

Just as every cell in the body has intelligence, perception, ability to react and a job to perform so does all of life. All life on our planet can perceive and react and has a role to play in the body and life of our planet. Animals, plants, rocks, humans, air, water, lava and so on all have a role to play. What one does causes ripples of effect in everything else. Together we are a collective that creates one being that we call Earth.

Do not cause harm to the cells of your body with things you eat, drink, think or do. By loving, cherishing and respecting the cells of your body, you honor their service, abilities, and grandure. What a miracle it is that cells choose to band together to form a body for you. Do no harm to others, human, animal, all others.

What happens to any one part influences every other part for good or for bad. Let’s adopt and expand Ann Marie Chiasson’s idea of sacred touch to include our words and thoughts as well as physical actions. Let’s use this intent in our treatment of our bodies and everything else on Earth including the planet. What a different world we would have; it would be a much improved world to inhabit.

Maybe humans could strive to adopt a life motto that reflects the Hindu concept of Ahimsa. “Do no harm.” Just imagine how much better off would we each be, how much better off we would be collectively and how much better off would Earth and all of her inhabitants be? 

Maybe we can let go of blame and judging and comparing and focus on changing our beliefs and behavior for the betterment of all.




Tuesday, April 19, 2016

4-19-16 Post: Disasters

Question/Comment: There are so many disasters and acts of hatred going on in the world. It makes me feel helpless.

Response: We never have control over other people. We can do the best we can with ourselves. It is important to volunteer to help where we can and as we can. We can also donate as we are able. Some of us may only have one bottle of water or one can of food to donate but that one bottle or one can could help save someone’s life. 

Just as important to volunteering and donating is loving yourself for doing what you can and spreading that love and appreciation to everyone who is doing what they can. You can even imagine the love you send out spreading throughout the world. 

Please, never let someone else’s anger or hatred squelch your love. If you can be a love generator as well as a do-gooder you will absolutely have a positive effect. And, if you are not able to volunteer or donate, the love you have for yourself and others will spread like ripples on water.


Monday, April 4, 2016

4-4-16 Post: I feel like a victim of my genetic make up.

Question/Comment: I see a bleak future for me when I look at my parents because of all the health problems that run in the family. I even see anger and substance abuse running in the family and I think I and my kids are doomed.

Response: “I realized that a cell’s life is fundamentally controlled by the physical and energetic environment with only a small contribution by its genes. Genes are simply molecular blueprints used in the construction of cells, tissues, and organs. The environment serves as a “contractor” who reads and engages those genetic blueprints and is ultimately responsible for the character of a cell’s life.” This is a quote from Bruce Lipton. Lipton, Bruce H. (2015-10-13). The Biology of Belief 10th Anniversary Edition: Unleashing the Power of Consciousness, Matter & Miracles . Hay House, Inc.. Kindle Edition.

I have often written that what we believe determines what we create in our lives. This applies to what we call to us from life and people as well as applying to our own bodies and the emotions we feel and express outwardly. Dr. Lipton provides us with a scientific basis for this idea. Our genetic make up provides us with possibilities at the cellular level and at the systems level which is of course composed of our cells.

When we follow a blueprint in building a house we can choose to follow it exactly or to make changes. We can ignore part of the blueprint or we can make additions that the original blueprint did not call for at all. It appears that the genetic blueprint we are born with is exactly like this. We can provide it with stimulus to activate one part of it but not another or we can activate both parts. We can also change this original blueprint by the things we expose ourselves to (such as chemical or nuclear toxins).

Our thoughts produce chemical reactions in our brains and in other parts of our bodies that then circulate through out the body causing reactions in each cell. No doubt you have heard of or read about the “stress hormone” coritsol that our bodies produce when we have reactions, thoughts and emotions that cause us stress. We also produce happy chemicals such as endorphins when we are relaxed and pleased. These chemicals then instruct the cell and tell it how to behave.

This is a simple and brief description of how we are literally in control of how our genes express; that is how they behave, what they do. We have control over what our lives will be. We do have control over our health. It can seem overwhelming to think we are responsible for every aspect of our lives and that can cause us more stress or even self recrimination for not being good enough or perfect. As Louise Hay has stated so many times, the first step is to love ourselves. Just focus on learning to love yourself and improving your skill in this area.

Depending on you and where you are in your life, learning self love and appreciation might be a process that begins with trying to find something, anything about yourself that you don’t see as detestable. The process can flow from where you are at the moment. Never give up on yourself. Let your goal be learning to love yourself more skillfully and more often. Even your definition of what it means to love yourself will be ever changing and deepening.

Allow yourself to blossom and receive love, appreciation and acceptance from yourself and others. Know that you deserve the best simply because you exist. Allow your good to flow to you and never criticize yourself for some presumed failure of thought, feeling, health or anything else.  Suspend doubt and float in a flow of good.

An idea that was often stated by Ann Barnett, as you fill yourself with love, appreciation and acceptance, that is what will over flow from you to everyone else and you will have an unlimited supply to share. That energy you exude into the world, will also attract more of the same to you. You will be able to influence the world and all of existence with your positive vibratory output. You can be the creator of your own good health and happiness as well as part of the uplifting of all humanity just by increasing your positive, loving vibration.